Many women can easily determine if their man is that one. Some of us already know this on our first date. You meet a young man and that's good luck - he suits you in all respects! But for some reason does not burn with the desire to meet again. How to convince him that you are his soulmate and it is with you that he should continue to develop relations? How to make him fall in love with you?

How to please a man

1. Appearance. If you are told that the soul is important, not the appearance, feel free to ignore this rule. Judge for yourself, what kind of soul can we talk about on a first or second date, if you still don’t really know each other? Meet by clothes. Whether you're dressed like a puritan, or, worse, paired with black tights and pink studded shoes, a young man is sure to run away from you like you're from the plague. He should admire you, perhaps even a little jealous of you for other men who pay attention to you. Keep an aura of mystery and impregnability around you. He doesn't need to know all your secrets. As about your soul and personal experiences, and about clothes. If you put on tight underwear, then he should not see how you are trying to straighten him under the skirt. Some things should remain only between you and your dressing room.

2. Be natural (or not). Men can never resist a sweet smile and a warm laugh. Only laughing at his jokes (even if you've heard them before or they're not funny at all), not laughing at him. If he tries to cheer you up, or starts a story about his heroic deeds, then he definitely wants to please you. You can flirt with him, burst into a cute blush and bat your eyelashes, marveling at his intelligence, courage and sense of humor. Even if it is not, he will definitely like you. But here you should be careful. You understand if this is not your element, and in fact in life you are not at all like that. So is it worth it to play the fool and mislead him? You will not be able to sing praises to him for a long time and deceive yourself. If you don't want this, don't even start. Didn't like the joke? Smile, and translate the topic in a different direction. Praises himself to show how good he is? Praise, but don't overdo it. In any case, your behavior may depend on the person sitting opposite you. You can show yourself shy and modest if he likes it. Or vice versa, add bitchiness and watch his reaction. It is necessary to decide according to the situation, but not to flirt.

3. Find common topics of conversation. A flirtatious tone is a great start, but it can't last long. Try talking to him about his career, his goals, ambitions and aspirations. Show him that you care and that you are very interested in his life.

4. Make eye contact. Romantic glances will do wonders for your relationship. Make him look not at your chest, legs or any other parts of the body, but in the eyes. Even if you are not talking to him, look at him from time to time. And if he says something, look directly into his eyes. First, he will be flattered that you are so attentive to him. And secondly, it will melt his heart.

5. Enchantment of touch. Listen with your ears, see with your eyes, and squeeze his hand. This does not mean that you constantly have to pat him on the shoulder and shout: "How are you, bro?". Wear a soft or fluffy sweater, satin or velvet dress, then he will definitely want to touch you. You can even stumble and fall into his arms, as happens in all romantic films. If you can do it naturally, then you are a real manipulator. Continue in the same spirit.

6. Tell us about your talents. Surprise him with your abilities. He must understand that you are a tasty morsel and worth fighting for. It doesn't matter what it will be - culinary surprises, photos, karaoke or dancing. The main thing is to impress him.

7. Don't agree with him on everything. Compatibility plays an important role in your relationship. But you don't always have to tell him that you agree with everything he says or does. Sometimes a minor disagreement can take you or him by surprise, but it will make you respect each other's opinions. Perhaps he is also silent, because he does not want to offend you. But if you both say “no” to something, it will bring you closer and show that you are ready to move on.

8. Disappear. Naturally, do not go to another country and do not change the number. However, show him that, of course, it’s good with him, but you have more important things to do. For example, skip one or two dates, postpone the meeting. Make him miss you.

9. Don't let him know about your feelings. Men love the process of conquest. Make him want to court you and woo you. Never say: “I don’t need any gifts or flowers from you, I just need your attention.” No, it's definitely not enough for you! With these words, you kill his initiative, as if you are already telling him: “I am all yours, I love you the way you are and is ready for anything for you.” Not ready and not in love. Let him know that you really like him, but you didn't get blown away by him, even if he is. He must take the first step towards a serious relationship. The longer the pursuit of your heart, the more he will want to get you. But don't push the guy away too hard. Make him sweat a lot, but don't forget to caress and praise him.

10. Ask him for help. We all want to feel needed. If a girl can handle all the problems herself, why does she need a boyfriend? She moves heavy furniture herself, carries heavy bags herself, everything by herself and by herself. If you show that you need him, he will only be pleased to help you. Relying on his advice, you thereby strengthen your relationship. However, do not shift all your responsibilities to him, otherwise he will think that you consider him your secretary and will quickly run away from you.

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HOW TO COMPLETELY CLUTCH A MAN

Technical guide

1. WHERE TO LOOK

But you have something - serious intentions!

The best method for today is an ad in the newspaper.
(You are very advanced, because you don’t need a peasant who can’t read or one who
who, although he can read, does not even want to know WHAT he is again and very firmly
promised to make the President in the next 12 years for veterans of the Great War!
What do you talk about with such people?).

So the most fruitful way is through a large-circulation newspaper.

2. Self-praise

(According to press materials)

Here you need to write not what you really are, but what you would like to appear at first glance.

EXAMPLES TO ROLE

Designations:
v / n - bad habits;
higher education - higher education;
h / w - sense of humor;
c / o - joint vacation

A secular metropolitan woman, bright, feminine, with intelligence and charm needs
in an intelligent, c / o, decent, without a / p, not a petty man,
for which it will be a worthy decoration.
My hobbies: traveling abroad, singing with a guitar, reading, dancing.

164/64. Caring, gentle, interesting, Taurus.
I am looking for a decent man 49-55 years old, who has a house, a garden or a personal plot,
the car is not older than 5 years.

I, without a / p, cheerful, feminine, light type. Pretty, smart, intelligent. The character is not scandalous, not even against football. I'm looking for you: without a / p, with a c / w, smart, etc.

I don't drink, I don't smoke, I'm the perfect housewife. I exclude: alcohol, tediousness, self-interest.
I encourage: honesty, h / w and spiritual quest.
Small and fat please do not call.

Attractive, honest, pleasant in company and at home, with a good voice.
I love comfort, coziness, order.
I am looking for the same man from 175 cm, age not equal to Adam, working, independent.
Loafers and adventurers, please do not call.

Pretty, cultured and intelligent. With a soft complaisant character and h / w.
The most amazing thing is that it's all true.

Beautiful blonde 60 years old, I look younger, decent in every way.
V / o, versatile interests, a good hostess.

Appearance, upbringing and education are very average. I'm looking for a smart, not malicious friend. Nervous, arrogant, alcoholics, perverts, gigolos, impotents, please do not disturb.

For the family hearth, a male treasure is sought: witty, prosperous, generous,
caring, with a very great sense of humor, a slender brunette.
A sea of ​​warmth and happiness awaits him with a charming, sweet and decent woman 38/169/60.
Attention: This does not apply to full, balding and reading in warehouses.

A woman, 39/165/75, two well-bred children, a lot of advantages, few shortcomings, looking for a non-drinking and decent man under 45 years old. Do not offer older.

I am looking for you - gentle, affectionate, sensual, strong, not older than 40, with a great sense of humor, without a / p. I want to "dissolve in you" like raindrops in a mountain lake,
"to drown in your eyes", to see and understand and feel: You are my beloved, caring,
you know how to provide a family with prosperity - this is the pride for a real man!
Evil, greedy, fat, small and adventurous, please do not disturb me.

60, non-drinker, non-smoker, c/o. I'm looking for the same.

164/70/54, a flawless woman. Ironically, one. If there is a man in the world capable of unearthly love, call, you will not regret it.

I will give myself all to you: kind, generous, gentle.
You are not older than 45, not higher than 180, not more than 80 kg.
From the military base I will endure smoking (on the balcony), alcohol (on holidays).
Having a sense of humor is a must.
About me: blonde, short. Looking for my Prince.
Sexually anxious, owners of debts and problems, unresolved situations
are of no interest to me.

Miniature, tender, affectionate, without complexes and high / low, with a wonderful figure 86-66-92, Scheherazade, 37 years old, who knows how to cook deliciously and welcome guests, who loves nature
and pleasure, I would like to meet a serious man for marriage.

Brunette, 57/164, with v / o and v / p, not fat and not thin.
Interests: art, books, chess. Gourmet. A lion. I appreciate the mind.
Ideological and boring do not call.

I know how to love and give love.
Those who have contact with ex-wives and suffer for them - I ask you to suffer without me.

I am looking for an impotent family to create. I am 25/1.85. Tall, slim, pretty. Cheerful, cheerful, I love housekeeping, traveling, music.
/given without editing/

After reading all these ads, you can easily choose the right sample.
To get the nuances you need, individual words can be replaced by others,
taking them from the Cashier of Words.

3. CASH OF WORDS
for ads

(According to press materials)

I am: a woman of rare beauty and charm* intuitively smart* Cancer according to the horoscope* with a soft and strong character* gentle* bewitching blue-eyed smart girl* without stupid ambitions and average harmfulness* incomparable hostess* mega-temperamental and at the same time smart* intuitive with a/o* calm * super-economical* optimist* interesting lady with h/w* with a beautiful soul* I cook delicious food* I speak English/German/Swedish/Turkish* borscht, decency and comfort I guarantee* affectionate, but a little with h/w* caring* I like to talk/silent * modest* with v / o and c / u *
with impeccable taste* unusual* sexy* with a accommodating character* stunning blonde* pleasantly overweight/ thin/ plump, but with a good soul* stylish* incendiary*
no problems/ complexes* highly moral* able to learn* in the prime of life (38)*
not hysterical* strong and slender* character light and thinking* interesting in all respects*
with a figure in the shape of a guitar* I expand the search area to the shores of the Red and Dead, North and Baltic Seas*, etc. and so on. in the same way.

LOOKING FOR: decent* faithful* reliable* secure* serious* not poor in mind or soul* protection, support, breadwinner and something else between the ages of 45 and 55* self-sufficient*
without a beard and mustache/with a beard/with a mustache* with a driver's license* kind* generous* modern* moderate drinker/ non-drinker* with charisma* with intelligence* affectionate*
to create a child / family / marriage / c / o / for a joint versatile life without boredom
and longings* of a lonely independent respectable gentleman with a position in society* intelligent* not a miser* gentleman* financially secure* loving to dance* cheerful up to 70 years* sponsor* well-mannered* easy-going* with good manners*
not an egoist* someone who can appreciate me* with a modern and youthful sense of humor*
with an artistic bias * etc. etc.

From the author. Please explain, someone! Why do all the ladies certainly need h / w? Maybe by this abbreviation they mean something completely different? What then???
Let me know immediately, I'll edit the text right away!

4. TIME AND PLACE OF MEETING

It is necessary to meet at dusk or in the dark in a busy place, but away from the lantern,
somewhere on a bench in a city or park. Why would he see your war paint?..

Immediately after "Hello!" tell him that he should not be afraid of the dark, because you have a black belt in karate, you have a pepper spray in your purse, a traumatic pistol converted for live ammunition in your pocket, and in various secluded places (do not say which ones! Let the intrigue continue!) wolf traps are fitted. So now he himself will beware of going against your will.

I think that this will slightly cool his ardor and set him in a constructive way.

5. WHAT TO DO?

Get a newspaper out of your big bag and spread it out on a bench. On top of the newspaper
put down a clean white cloth.

If he brought a flower (not in a pot), then put it in some slot. And if in a pot - pull out the flower and insert it somewhere too. Because it's so romantic! I mean
dinner with flowers on the pleinair.

Put all the food prepared at home on a rag, carefully lay it out in heaps by type.

I hope you will not forget paper napkins and greens - cleanly washed cucumbers, tomatoes, dill, cilantro, radishes, boiled potatoes with coarse salt to boot.

And also - pre-cut herring and lard in glass jars,
plastic forks and knives, paper plates.

And only then (so as not to grab it right away!) Get the MAIN and two glasses.

Let him see right away what a wonderful hostess you are!

BREAK for three minutes!!

(I will swallow, then I will continue).

Don't believe the popular belief that "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach!".
Lies, lies and more lies! And arrogant too!!!

But just in case, keep this in mind.

Give him a drink and a snack.

Repeat.

The same - a few more times.

Be sure to find (or invent!) something to praise him for.
And praise, praise him excitedly - without a twinge of conscience!

This is how you tame him.

Be sure: On the next date with you, He will fly like on wings!

Let's look forward to meeting you - like a holiday!

NOTE.
Don't ask him to come with his buddies so you can choose the best one.
He's not a fool, and if he brings, then such okhlamons that it would be better for you to never see them!

6. INVITE HIM HOME

Just in case, take everything more or less valuable and a wallet to your neighbor in advance.

Do not think that having found nothing, He will guess and be offended: After all, the main value - you - remained in place, with him!

Ask for food from a good restaurant to be delivered in advance, in the morning.
Warm up something so that it does not burn, you, I hope, can?

And so - five times! After that it is yours!

Let the fool think that it will always be so.

7. CLIMINATION

Tell him that you, as an employee of the Automotive Industry, are offered to go on a work contract
to America for 5 years, where you will train the workers of local car factories in rapid assembly.
These savages are so technologically behind that they don't even know how to use a mallet*
when assembling! And every bolt is screwed! We would have learned!

But here's the problem: invite only with her husband. What to do - you don’t know ... But it’s a pity to refuse!

He will immediately propose to you.
(Q.E.D!).

Break first for the sake of it (not for long), then agree.

______________________________________

* Mallet - a heavy carpenter's hammer made of hardwood or rubber

8. REVERSE

The wedding march of the rootless cosmopolitan Felix Mendelssohn will end, the honeymoon will pass with a makeweight, and then you bitterly announce:

BrokeAxle! Imagine, the American President said something bad about ours, and he answered, as always asymmetrically (that is, crookedly, obliquely, if you say it in Russian): they canceled our trip with you! Now let the whole of America bite its elbows with annoyance!

Your faithful will say something here that I do not dare to repeat, so as not to fall under a criminal article. (Just imagine what any reader in his place would say!). Well, you understand me!

Here is one of two:

If the hubby quickly "fades" - there he is dear!

He honestly worked his way out, and now you know exactly how to get a new one:

P.p. 1-8 SHOULD BE REPEATED,

While you are still young and lovely, as in the ad.

If a little man is outperforming, outperforming - and will stay with you, then there is no need to drive such a thing!
Rare you got!

Then don't forget about

It will be fair because WITHOUT ME
SUCH A DEDICATED HUB
You would NEVER FIND!

But now -

L I V I T E AND HAPPY!

_________________________________________________________

P.S.: There is also an instruction for men:
"How to finally find a wife"

Sexual attraction at 50 percent
consists of what you really have,
and 50 percent of what you have according to other people.
Sophia Loren

"This is a guide to personal relationships for women who are 'too nice'," says American Sherry Agrov, who believes that "to raise self-esteem to normal levels, a woman needs a bit of irreverence." Today, she explains how to please a man by treating him to sausages and not answering calls.

Consider yourself a gift of fate, and then he will believe you

Each of us knows good girls. We are talking about a woman who is ready to give literally everything to a man she barely knows, without demanding anything in return. This is a woman who blindly believes everything, because she wants a reciprocal affection. She is ready to do everything that, in her opinion, a man wants. Such a woman wants to maintain personal relationships at any cost. And many of us have been in similar situations.

And this is not at all surprising. Pick up any fashion magazine and read the relationship advice from the so-called "experts". "First play hard to win him over, then cook him a sumptuous four-course meal... Bake him a Valentine's Day cake with exotic Malay spices. Don't forget to decorate the cake with organic strawberries, which will take you two hours to get. Then Serve him all of this on a second date in the most luxurious black lace lingerie." What do you think this recipe is? DISASTER!

Attractiveness Principle #1

Everything that a person hunts for in his life is bound to slip away.

This is especially true for men. With one small exception: if you hunt him in black lace underwear, he will deal with you first. sex...and then slip away.

Why do men slip away in situations like this? They run because the woman's behavior does not indicate that she values ​​herself highly. Relationships are at an early stage, and communication between partners is still superficial. And the woman is already putting her strongest cards on the table.

In fact, by such behavior, a woman convinces a man of one of two things. Either she is already desperate to find a partner, or she is ready to enter into a relationship with any man. Or maybe both at the same time. And this extinguishes his interest in a woman more than anything else. As soon as a man ceases to respect a woman because she, in his opinion, does not value herself, he loses the desire to become closer. And here it does not matter whether she put on black underwear or not.

The girl of his dreams does not go out of his way, just to please someone. That's why a woman with whom a man truly falls in love probably won't cook him a sumptuous four-course meal. And it is unlikely that she sets the table with exquisite porcelain. At best, he can count on one dish (most likely popcorn). And porcelain plates are generally a luxury. A plastic bowl is enough. She will simply ask: "What do you prefer - straight from the bag or pour into a bowl?" Six months later, the same woman will finally cook dinner and serve it on a warmed plate. And what will the man say to himself then? "Wow, but I'm still nothing!"

Even if there are ordinary pasta with meatballs bought at the nearest cookery on the plate. A man will still say: "This is the most delicious pasta I've ever eaten in my life!"

And then he will feel like a king. The only difference is how much time and effort he will have to put into it. What comes with difficulty is more appreciated.

Attractiveness Principle #2

Women for whom men climb the wall are not necessarily special. Very often they simply do not care about these men. It's not about playing games or manipulating others. You must determine if you are really demanding and dependent, or if you want to be an equal partner in a relationship. The main thing for you is to be able to keep yourself the way you are, within the framework of any relationship.

What happens if you once let a man know that you are ready to bend to his demands? He will immediately decide that you are desperate and will want to see how far you are willing to bend. Such is human nature. He will immediately test you. The more accommodating you are, the higher his demands will be. He will perceive you as a Duracell battery: how far will he go? What else can he get from her?

Good girls need to understand what bitches have known for a long time. The desire to please and fulfill any desire weakens the respect for you from a man. In fact, you are destroying your attractiveness in his eyes with your own hands. Your relationship is doomed, it's just a matter of how much longer it will last.

Most men do not perceive women who jump out of their skin as a mental challenge. An intelligent woman makes the mistake of thinking that if she talks to a man on political topics and is well versed in matters of the stock market, then by doing so she stimulates his mind during lunch. But mental challenge has nothing to do with talking.

Mental challenge determines whether you can expect respect from a man or not.

It depends on how you treat him. It depends on whether he understands that you are not afraid of losing him.

A good girl makes the mistake of making it clear that she is available to a man at any time. "I don't want to play games," she says. Thus, she makes him understand how afraid she is to be left without him. And then the man realizes that the woman is 100 percent his. It is at this moment that the woman begins to complain: "He never has time for me. He has ceased to be such a romantic as before."

The bitch is more selective in the matter of accessibility. Sometimes it's available, sometimes not. But she's nice. Sweet enough to be the first thing a man thinks of when he decides to see someone. After all, sometimes she agrees to meet him. What follows from all this? That she does not belong to a man completely.

And what about a woman who is ready to do anything to see a man? The man is sure that she will not go anywhere from him. After a couple of dates, he begins to meet friends, stay late at work, call and cancel an appointment with this woman.

When a woman arrives in the middle of the night to see a man, the only thing she misses is a neon sign: "We provide delivery."

Attractiveness Principle #3

A man perceives a woman as a mental challenge only if he is not sure that she belongs to him one hundred percent. It says a lot about how you spend time with a man. Nice girl after a week acquaintance sits modestly in a chair while the man goes about his business. He can watch sports on TV, clean fishing tackle, tune his guitar, or fix his car. The girl will suffer, but will not say a word. Instead, she will try her best to hide her boredom, just to spend at least some time in his company.

The bitch, on the contrary, will immediately begin to complain. No wonder she is a bitch. And that's not bad at all. But the man will understand that you can’t wipe your feet on her. But remember that a mental challenge has nothing to do with verbal brawls. It is only about your actions and the extent to which you are willing to give up your interests. Suppose a man says he likes blondes. You have dark skin, brown eyes and black hair. On the next date, he sees you with bleached hair and bleached eyebrows. What does he think? He understands that you are entirely in his hands.

"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach," says folk wisdom. This is true, but no one said that you have to spend the whole day at the stove, like a slave, to feed him. Whether you feed him homemade delicacies or snacks from a nearby cookery, his stomach will be full. So your love is guaranteed. Here a simple rule comes into play: if the food is hot, he will eat it. Everything else is just wasted effort.

Women are accustomed to sacrifice themselves and forget about their own interests. I have yet to see articles in any men's magazine on how to cook a four-course meal for a woman. The most that these publications are capable of is advice for those who are involved in bodybuilding. Tough guys need egg white with the addition of wheat germ. I started talking about cooking because it's one of the ways women humiliate themselves. Of course, I don't mean to say that you should forget your way to the kitchen at all. No, you can very well arrange a festive dinner on the occasion of or in honor of his birthday. It is pleasant and does not obligate you to anything.

On solemn occasions, when a man understands how he deserved encouragement, he perceives your cooking as a reward. If you go out of your way every day, he will take your efforts for granted. Since this book is for women, I feel entitled to offer you a few recipes that are the best suited for the first weeks of dating. And, unlike the recipes of professional cooks, it is very easy to remember them. You don't even need to write them down.

Snack. Popcorn a la carte

I strongly recommend that you pay attention to popcorn, as it is very convenient to prepare and does not require much time. Place the bag in the microwave first, when all the grains have "exploded", carefully remove the bag from the oven as it will be very hot. Do not forget to wear a special mitten, apron or use an oven mitt. Your appearance will not only make a deep impression on the guest, but also let him know that you know very well what you are doing.

If the popcorn is burnt, inspect it carefully. If it burns only on top, discard the black grains, and serve the yellow ones to your guest, after pouring them into a bowl. And then put a new bag in the oven for yourself.

Required quantity: one and a half sachets will be enough.

Main dish. Gourmet delicacy

Bring water to a boil and drop two sausages into it. Boil the sausages for five minutes until they are firm or semi-hard. Offer your guest a refreshing drink. Then send him to the balcony so that he can enjoy the amazing view - even if your windows overlook the parking lot. Before he sees you, cut the sausages into thin slices and stick a toothpick into each. Show off your creativity by choosing toothpicks in a variety of colors. And now serve small slices of sausages with two "delicacy seasonings": ketchup and mustard. And never tell your guest that it's just sausages. Always call them "gourmet delicacy".

And now a little tip for dessert: buy a ready-made roll and serve it with coffee (of course instant).

Mint chewing gum is the perfect ending to a meal. Personally, I recommend Wrigleys Peppermint, Wrigleys Spermint, or Trident.

You will understand that your dinner was a success when the man insists that next time he will certainly invite you to a restaurant. Never again in your life will you hear from him the sacramental phrase: "Well, what do we have for lunch today?"

If after some time he forgets and still asks you to cook something, offer him your signature dishes: popcorn, sausages and a ready-made roll with instant coffee, as well as mint chewing gum for dessert. And then start dressing up, because you will be invited to the restaurant in an hour.

A bitch is not the kind of woman who will sit at home and spend her time honing the art of "holding" a man. All she needs is good company. This will be more than enough before a man manages to deserve something more.

At the beginning of a relationship, pay special attention to the following. If a man during the courtship period does not want to do anything for you, this means that in the future he is unlikely to be able to offer you anything. Such behavior is unworthy of you. You deserve more. And you have to let the man understand that. Do you have to work overtime? If a man has something to offer you, but you do not allow it, he will have no choice but to retreat. When a good girl puts herself down, her behavior says: "What I can offer you is clearly not enough. And I myself am not good enough." A bitch, on the other hand, sends a completely different message to her partner: "I'm already good on my own. Enjoy it or get out."

Relationships are built from day one. From the very beginning, he consciously (yes, yes, consciously!) tries to find out what are the parameters of these relationships and how much he can get from them. Telephone etiquette also speaks volumes. Are you waiting for a call from a man to make your own plans? Do you go crazy if he doesn't call? Do you call yourself? Are you showing that you were waiting for his call?

Elena Kuznetsova, a family psychologist, consultant on interpersonal relations, director of the Me and You dating agency, tells.

Who do status men react to?

A status man is usually not super young, he is at least about 35 years old. He has an expensive car, expensive clothes and shoes, expensive watches, a good haircut and perfume. Most often, status men are far from fools, they sometimes have several higher educations - the time of the "bulls" has passed.

To please such a man, he will have to match both externally and internally. - this applies to skin, hair, makeup, manicure and pedicure, - stylishly dressed, courteous and friendly. A lady does not have to drive an expensive car, she may well walk, but she should still look expensive. And - which is also important - not flashy.

A status man from 35 to 40 years old is not necessarily greedy for 20-year-old young ladies, he may well be interested in a peer if she looks good and smart. Such a man, still quite young and not worried about age and potency, is quite capable of evaluating a woman as a person.

An older status man will first of all pay attention to the appearance of the girl. "Daddies" are attracted by a young body, because they are already thinking about their adulthood, old age, and the presence of a young lady next to them creates the illusion of youth for them. Sexual issues are mixed in with this - the chances that the “lower chakra” will “work” for a young beautiful girl are much greater than for an older lady.

How to behave

It all depends on what kind of man you are adjusting to. If this is a "daddy", then play a girl, complete infantilism. A mature man is “led” to such behavior, because you can’t argue with nature - at a respectable age, the representatives of the stronger sex look at young ladies not as women, but as girls, and their paternal instinct automatically works. As well as a woman who is dating a man much younger than herself.

If your goal is a relatively young status man, then you must be a superwoman, rolled into one. Parity relations are welcome here, and everything is important: appearance, smell, style, ability to conduct a conversation, as well as personal qualities. Plus - a woman should share the interests of men. Such representatives of the stronger sex need a fighting girlfriend, they are not afraid of smart women. They respect a woman as a person and at the same time are not ready to take care of her as a child.

Calmness or emotions

Study a man before choosing the right demeanor. Adjust and mirror your partner - it will be easier to succeed. If a person is impulsive, then you will have to bring a little emotion into the conversation, and if a man is calm and measured, then you can only scare him with excessive impulsivity. Speak smoothly and measuredly, avoid excessive gestures.

Do not "load" and do not replay

Of great importance is the place - on the beach, in a cafe or in the office. Behavior must be appropriate to the situation. If you met a man on the beach, don't be smart and ask if he's read Nietzsche.

It’s completely optional to build a “professor” out of yourself, but don’t play the “fool” either. If you are not too confident in your own knowledge, at the initial stages it is enough to talk less and nod “smartly”, playing along with the genius of a man. The opposite sex, oddly enough, is often "led" to such a seemingly obvious trick and sincerely considers his interlocutor smart - almost like himself.

Where to look

A status man can be found anywhere - in a store, in a cafe or a sports club. He becomes an easier prey in a restaurant when a person is relaxed and has time to talk. Places where any entertainment events take place are also suitable.

Leave an impression

The stronger the impression made on a man, the more likely it is that you will see each other again. To leave a vivid memory of yourself, you should turn on all your sexual charm and put into action the rules of “grandfather Carnegie”: smile, call the interlocutor by name more often and casually touch your partner. If you are an adventurer, then you can decide on a shocking act. For example, give flowers to the chosen one.

30% of 100% of men are able to respond positively to such attention to their person. But on the other hand, where is the guarantee that your man is in these 30%? Elena Kuznetsova nevertheless advises practicing extravagant behavior not with an unfamiliar man, but with her own, so as not to bore him.

“The man is visual. And if he didn’t like you outwardly, at least give him a million scarlet roses, there’s no sense. Of course, there are cases when men were led to provocations, but for a woman, further relationships became a serious test. Living with a man and knowing that you are “not a type”, and any fool who turns out to be in the taste of your chosen one can take him away, this is stress, ”the psychologist comments on the situation.

Helpful information

Elena Kuznetsova, director of the Me and You dating agency, family psychologist. Phone 8-920-909-62-35.

Don't ask for a phone

If a status man is still interested in you, be sure that he will definitely not even ask, but will demand your phone number. Yes, and with you, he will double-check whether he wrote it down correctly.

You should not ask for a number from a man yourself, because this will be an interference in his life, which the representatives of the stronger sex do not like at all. And if ordinary men are able to simply gently evade the answer, then business people will also firmly put a woman in her place.

If you have questions for psychologist Elena Kuznetsova, you can ask them by writing a letter to the editorial office of AiF-Vladimir: [email protected].

There are men who should get a sign: "Think a hundred times before you have sex with me!" Of course, this is from the realm of fantasy. They themselves not only do not warn us of danger, but also try to appear as ideal lovers and very nice guys. Meanwhile, close relationships with them really promise a lot of trouble.
1 Freedom Fighter
2. Suspicious
3. Burdock
4. Married man
5. Fan
6. Perfectionist
7. Fisted
8. Mommy's boy
9. Fatal man
10. Tyrant
These are 10 types of men, with which it is recommended to practice sex with extreme caution.

Freedom fighter
It's pretty easy to recognize him. This man is always at odds with someone: with colleagues, parents, friends. The first fetter his initiative, the second pretend to his free time, and the third just "got it." He fights with everyone like a lion, saying: "I'm not their boy," "Don't put pressure on me," "To hell with them." At first, such independence and sharpness of judgment can fascinate you, as it creates the image of a sort of lone superhero. But one day you run the risk of discovering that you yourself are fettering his initiative, impudently claiming his free time, or even “getting it”. And what with the fact that you are so great together in bed! According to his deep conviction, this does not mean that he must fulfill all the promises made to you in the heat of passion or keep you informed of the events of his life. In short, his struggle for freedom turns out to be the result of an elementary unwillingness to take responsibility, adapt to someone and complicate his life. Ultimately, he fights not for freedom, but for the right to remain selfish to the marrow of his bones, without losing the sympathy of others. How about your liking for this guy?

Suspicious
It's not even bad that he stubbornly suspects you of a criminal relationship with a housemate and an unhealthy interest in a good half of his colleagues. Much more alarming is his desire to knock out of you at any cost the recognition that your previous partner was no good in bed, and your first love was the stupidest mistake in your life. He suspects that there are men in the world smarter, sexier, luckier and more interesting than himself. If you dare to hint to him that this suspicion is not unfounded, your life will turn into a nightmare overnight. But even if you refrain from such hints, he is unlikely to be able to completely calm down and relax. He seems to be overly vain or insecure and wants to boost his self-esteem at your expense. A very burdensome load even for the most ardent relationships.

Burdock
If a man begins to criticize a friend in your presence, who very quickly brought the relationship with his new girlfriend to bed, you can be 90 percent sure: it is he who is the burdock. At every opportunity, he emphasizes that he regards the beginning of a sexual relationship as an important and responsible step. He is trying to convince you that sex will bind you tightly. What's wrong with that, you ask. But here's what: he not only imposes certain obligations on himself, but also tries to impose them on you. If something doesn’t work out for you, he will come to you and mysteriously hint at certain circumstances that don’t allow you to part like that. By "circumstances" he will mean the existence of a sexual relationship between you in the past. And, unfortunately, he is able to go in cycles in all this for a long time.

Married man
A married man as a sexual partner is always a major complication in your life. There are too many mysteries associated with this character: does he go to you because he loves, or just because his wife does not love him, does he have sex with her through force, as he tries to convince you, or with difficulty achieves intimacy from her, and he uses you only in case of failure on that main love front.

fan
What exactly he is fanatically devoted to is not so important. It could be the Internet, a brand new Mercedes or a falling apart Zaporozhets, a football team, his dog, or a collection of teapots. The fact that this attachment is clearly fanatical in nature is evidenced by the following:
he puts you in second place in his life after this object and sincerely believes that this should flatter you;
only about this he is able to talk for more than five minutes in a row;
his mood entirely depends on how much time and how fruitfully he spent one on one with the object of his passion. It is clear that by taking him out to the sea for a week, where, say, he will never be able to play his favorite computer game, you will bring back an extremely gloomy and nervous subject. But whether you will bring pleasant memories from there is another big question.

Perfectionist
Communication with him is another test. Having worked on himself and achieved perfection - at least it will seem so to him for some time - he will certainly take on you. Your friends, your behavior at work, your figure, the way you dress and treat him in public - everything will be subjected to detailed criticism. In the end, it will become clear that you need to change completely and completely. This process must be started as soon as possible. When you realize the scope of his demands, you will probably decide that it is much easier to find a replacement for a perfectionist than to fulfill at least half of them. What will you do, keeping a couple of freshly acquired complexes in memory of this man.

Fisted
On this hero, we would have lingered the longest. Each of us had at least one story about a greedy man in stock. Sharing these stories, which look more like anecdotes, gives us a lot of pleasure. But no one would like to be their heroine once again. Male greed kills feelings, puts pressure on our self-esteem, annoys and completely deprives us of any respect for the man himself. The following case from life was recognized as the most egregious: a young man gave his girlfriend a bouquet of flowers for her birthday with a store coupon enclosed in it. It was printed in large letters: "Two bottles of eau de toilette for the price of one." As they say, no comment.

Sissy
We love men who love their parents very much. And let sissy do not believe us - it really is. Our dislike for them arises not from their tender attachment to their family, but from their pathological dependence on it and their stubborn unwillingness to grow up. And here's another thing: sex with a typical sissy is unlikely to give you pleasure. There must be some scientific explanation for this fact. Still, real sex is an occupation for free, independent and non-timid people. In a word, not for sissy.

fatal man
It's very hard to get out of touch with him. Still: women catch his eye at parties, on the street, and even at the moment when he is driving a car and, with all their desire, are not able to reward them with this look. He may not be too handsome, but does it matter when sexuality comes from him in waves. How to distinguish a fatal man from the man of your dreams? It's very simple: the second embodies exactly your ideal, while the first seems to represent the ideal of all females without exception, which he almost uses. A common misconception: his all-consuming sexuality is an innate quality that is pretty annoying, first of all, to himself. Say, he really wants, poor fellow, to forget about his irresistibility next to a tender and loving girlfriend. And here it is not. What a fatal man, what a fatal woman becomes solely because of their great love and great interest in the opposite sex. And nothing else. So keep in mind: he will never forget about other women for the sake of you alone and will never refuse to once again check whether his chances are still great among those others.

Tyrant
Left in the end as the most dangerous and unpleasant type of sexual partner. True, his tyranny can be mild, in which case the title of Controller would suit him better. Affectionately, but confidently, he directs your life in the direction that he considers most acceptable for his woman. And this is different from the Perfectionist, who usually confines himself to verbal wishes, albeit in quantities beyond reasonable limits. The active intervention of the Controller in your life can at times be flattering and cause something like gratitude as an extreme manifestation of care and love. But it puts too many restrictions on you. As for the Tyrant, relations with him can already pose a real threat to you. Try to back down in a relationship with him, and you will find out whose interests he actually cares about, pointing out to you what you should and should not do in this life. By the way, sex with the Tyrant is also a very specific pleasure, because here, like nowhere else, the authoritarian habits of one of the partners infringe on the interests of the other and, ultimately, prevent both of them from enjoying the game. They do not know how to play, they are too serious, completely devoid of self-irony, and for one reason or another, they are desperately trying to keep themselves within limits - this is what unites all the comrades described above. That is why they are on our black list. However, each of them has a chance to improve, in any case, experience shows that this is quite real. But this is a separate issue.

From the author: It makes no sense to take these assessments seriously, but it is still interesting to think about it and compare it like this. I thought - Here are Christmas trees, sticks, but after such chips you will be disappointed in yourself. So, it turns out that I am both a tyrant and a sissy, and I strive for Freedom by any means and means, and I am a little suspicious and stingy, I have the ability to stick to everything and everyone, I love football ... And, like him, a perfectionist ... Only now, it seems that he is not up to the fatal husband, but from that he is free as a bath sheet. In general, it turns out I'm a big bastard. Which is very, very, very unpleasant ... At least go and sign up as Lieutenant Schmidt's children.
It's not very pleasant when you are stuffed into some kind of framework and given a definition, such as "DO NOT COME - DEADLY TO LIFE", "CAUTION - HIGH VOLTAGE".
And, if you think about it, then everyone can be matched to these descriptions more or less, or you can get a combined one. The exception is a robot.